We had a fun Halloween this year and the kids were so excited that they got to wear their costumes 3 days in a row! Thursday night was our ward Trunk or Treat, Friday was Emma's school party and of course Saturday was Halloween. This year Emma was a bat and Derrick was a green skeleton. If you know Derrick you know this is perfect for him, since he is obsessed with the color green. I was trying to talk him into being Frankenstein, but then he saw the green skeleton costume at the store and it was all over! I think Emma's costume this year has been my favorite of hers so far. It was really cute and fun! Thursday was fun and it gave us a good run through with the costumes. Jon got Derrick ready...makeup and all. He had a mask with his costume which he wore on Halloween, but not for Trunk or Treat.
Scary Skeleton
Emma's tough bat face! :)
Emma's school party went well. Surprisingly, Derrick did really good just playing cars at the table I was at for 2 hours. I was in charge of face painting, which was really just using makeup sticks that were very hard to work with. Thank goodness kindergartners are easy to please!
Emma with some of her class
Emma with some of her friends
Derrick in his corner!
Saturday night we went trick-or-treating in our neighborhood for the first time since we have lived here. Earlier in the day Derrick twisted his ankle a little and was limping all day so he was a bit of a crippled skeleton in the stroller. He is fine, and it was almost easier to have him in the stroller so we could go faster! The kids were tired after 3 streets, so we had them home, showered and in bed by 8pm. Not bad after they were eating candy all day and night! It was a fun night, but I'm glad I do not have to dress any more kids up for another year!
Last Friday we were able to take a vacation to Spokane, Washington to see my brother and sister and their families. We were so excited to go and get out of the hot AZ weather, but we were not prepared for the freezing Spokane weather! The highs were in the 30's and 40's with lows in the teens. Plus a wind chill factor, so it felt much colder! Thank goodness my nephew had a coat that was too small for him that fit Derrick. His little hoodie wasn't quite enough. We were able to get 2 stand-by tickets and save some money. Derrick and I were the "lucky" ones (ha ha) who got to fly stand-by while Emma and Jon took a non-stop flight at a reasonable hour. Derrick and I left for the airport at 5:15 Friday morning. My sister was kind enough to take us that early. (Thanks Jen) We made it to Salt Lake with no problems, but then the problems began. Our next chance of getting out of Salt Lake and to Spokane was at 7:45 pm. I quickly became a mess and was crying in the airport, not sure of what to do all day with a 3 year old who was tired and all of our luggage. Andrea to the rescue!! Jon's sister and her husband live in Orem and thank goodness she was not working that day and came and picked us up from the airport. It was an added bonus to get to spend the day with her. We went out to lunch, took Derrick for a ride on the train at the Provo Mall and then went back to her house and took a nap. Thank you Andrea and Blake! We love you guys! Back at the airport it was not looking good for us to get on the 7:45 flight which meant waiting until 9:30pm. But, luckily at the very last second we got on and they even helped us ask a guy to move seats so Derrick and I could sit together. All I felt was relief as the plane finally took off. We stayed at my brother's house and the kids thought it was so fun to all sleep together in one giant bed. There were arms and legs flopped over each other, but it didn't seem to bother them! On Saturday the kids and I spent the day with my sister and her family while Jon went to the ASU football game with Jami. I thought he was crazy to go the an outside stadium and sit on metal bleachers. He froze! We went to a small train museum where Derrick could have spent all day watching the model train set. Then we went to a really cool park in Coeur d'Alene right on the lake. The kids played for a while and then looked for leaves. Emma was so excited to see fall leaves and apple trees. She has learned about Fall in school and doesn't quite understand why we don't have those things here! Sunday we had family dinner at my sister's house. It was fun just to sit and visit with everyone! Monday we went to a restaurant that was built in an actual old train car. Derrick was of course very excited! After breakfast we went to a farm that had pumpkin patches and apple orchards. Emma was so excited! She really wanted to pick and apple and pumpkin for her teacher, but luckily I was able to talk her out of it. I can just imagine squished pumpkin in her luggage, yuck! That was our last night there. I went to dinner with just my sister and then we just hung out for a little bit that night. Derrick and I had to catch the 6:15 am flight home so I tried to go to bed early. Getting home was much easier. We made our connecting flight and arrived in Phoenix about 15 minutes before Jon and Emma, so it all worked out. We had a really fun trip and we are so glad we went. We did freeze a little, but thawed out quickly back at home where the temperature is suppose to be 101 tomorrow! One downfall is Emma came home with croup. I felt bad that she exposed all the other kids before we knew she had it. She is getting better, but I am not feeling so well. Gotta love flying on an airplane during flu season! But I am thankful it is not the flu that we have and that Emma has been off of school this week for Fall Break. I think we should be better by Monday. We are sorry we are missing Jon's stepsister's wedding this weekend. Jon is representing our family. We love you Sara! Thanks Denmarks and Clarks for a really fun weekend! (So Jami, let's hear the rude comment on this one!)
Thank goodness tonight is the last night that Jon is away on business in Baltimore. It seems to have gone by so slow this trip. I can not wait to pick him up at the airport tomorrow! But here I am bored and thought I would write about my day. It was interesting. This afternoon I sliced 3 of my fingers while doing a haircut. My shears broke (too weird to explain how). At first the cuts didn't seem bad, but then as I started blow drying and putting pressure on them they really started bleeding. So, I now have 3 band aids on my left hand and feel a little impaired. I was suppose to make flowers clips with Jeni tonight and had to cancel because I can't use my left hand very well. And I'm not too happy about having to use my old shears until I can get a new pair. I thought I would plan something fun for Emma tonight since she has really been missing her dad. Yesterday she circled on her school paper the sad face instead of the happy face. When I asked her why she said because she was crying for her daddy at school. Then last night she cried and cried when I was putting her to bed because I didn't sing like daddy or fly her like daddy. Mom is just not as good as dad to our little daddy's girl. So today I bought the new Barbie movie and planned to get pizza and eat popcorn and have a "party". Emma was very excited! We were getting in the car to go pick up the pizza and Emma slipped somehow as she was climbing into her seat and smashed her nose on the inside door handle. It was instant blood gush. She was bawling I was trying to pull her out of the car over Derrick who was freaking out in his seat because he just saw blood all over his sister and then Emma looked at her blood covered hand and lost it even more. I unstrapped Derrick while holding Emma and trying not to let the blood get everywhere. We ran into the bathroom to get her cleaned up and as she was laying in my arms she looked up at me and cried, "Did I die?" I couldn't help but smile a little, but I assured her she did not die and she would be fine. Derrick was so sweet, he came in the bathroom and offered Emma his favorite camo blanket to make her feel better. (See he can be sweet sometimes!) We got the bleeding stopped and got her all cleaned up. I told her she may have a swollen nose or a black eye in the morning. I hope that is not the case, but only time will tell. Then she was worried that no one at school would like her with a "white puffy nose". I asked her if she would still like her friends if they had white puffy noses and she said yes, but then she started crying again and said, "But no one has ever had that before". Oh, the drama of a 5 year old! But the pizza. popcorn and Barbie movie worked wonders and all was well again. She also got to talk to her Aunt Annie on the phone and that made her happy! Tomorrow is a new day and we will see what it holds. At least Jon is coming home. He is greatly missed, especially by his girls! Well, I am now going to bed, so that I can wake up to a new day!
A few weeks ago Derrick had a little cold and thought he could not take naps anymore. So, he would stay up and play in his room as long as he possible could until he finally would fall asleep...sometimes as late as 4pm. One day I went in and he had fallen asleep in his rocking chair with his stuffed animals surrounding him and one leg just hanging off the chair. Another day I went in and he had placed all of his stuffed animals on top of the humidifier. I'm glad the "no nap" stage did not last longer than a few days. I love having those couple of hours of quiet everyday. He's a funny kid and I am enjoying spending time with him while Emma is in school. He told me today, "You're my favorite boy!" because that's what I always tell him!
Last Saturday for Emma's birthday she invited 2 of her friends to Sugar Bowl in Scottsdale. It is a cute old fashion ice cream parlor and the girls were so excited! My friend, Melissa Jackson, who always takes the fabulous pictures of the kids, went along to take pictures for Emma's birthday. I made the girls shirts, tutus, hair bows and flip flops. They looked so cute! Melissa took over 400 pictures, so the slide show is a little long even after I narrowed it down to 50! I had fun editing some of them in photoshop. This one is my favorite and pretty much sums up the day...ice cream and friends!!
Emma Louise Brenay August 19, 2004 12:46 p.m. 6lbs 14oz 19 3/4"
Wednesday was Emma's 5th birthday. She has been very excited to turn 5...great things must happen at 5! She was a little confused in the morning thinking that it wasn't her "real' birthday because her party is Saturday and she had to go to school. But I told her it was her birthday and I would bring cookies to school for her class. When I brought the pink frosted cookies with sprinkles (a very specific request by the birthday girl) she was so excited! Her teacher made her a pink crown to wear all day and the class sang "Happy Birthday" to her. When she got home we snapped some pictures and she started her whole posing thing that she does lately. She is always making faces and turning to the side, or putting her leg up when I take her pictures now. It's pretty funny. The day was so busy for me that I had to make her birthday cake very quickly. Thank goodness it was not for a party where people would see it or I would not have served it. She really wanted a Hello Kitty cake and there is not Wilton pan for that so I made rectangular cake and cut into the shape of Hello Kitty. But, because I was in a huge hurry I didn't let the cake cool all the way before I tried to get it out of the pan and it broke into several pieces. Well, after I salvaged that, I started frosting and ran out, so I couldn't frost the sides. Then I made the face wrong because I didn't take the time to go look at Hello Kitty. But, Emma was happy with it. I guess it's not hard to please a 5 year old, thank goodness! The reason I had to hurry so quickly was because I had to go to Curriculum Night at the school. But it was also Barro's Pizza Night for the school, so I had Jon pick up some pizza and feed the kids while I was gone and then we did cake and presents when I got home. She was actually celebrating her birthday all week. On Saturday Grandma and Grandpa Clark came over and gave her presents to her along with presents from her Aunt Debi, then on Sunday Grandma and Grandpa Trafzer had dinner and ice cream cake with us and brought her presents. Then on her birthday she also got presents from cousins, Uncle Ronnie and Aunt Stevi and Uncle Kevin. She was thrilled with all of her gifts. I felt a little bad that we made her kind of rush opening her presents so that Jon and I could go to Yoga. (Yes, Jon and I have been going to Yoga classes every Wednesday!) But, she likes going to the gym Kids Klub anyway! Happy Birthday to my baby girl who is not such a baby anymore! We love you lots and lots!
Last Thursday, the 13th was our 10 year Wedding Anniversary. I can't believe how time has flown by! Jon worked that day, so I went shopping with my sister and stopped to put a giant card and present in Jon's truck. I bought him a new food processor (which he is taking back). I didn't get the right size! But, it's the thought that counts, right?! He bought me a new camera, which I am so excited about! But, he ordered it online and it hasn't arrived yet. I can't wait to try it out! That night my sister watched the kids so we could go out for a nice dinner. We went to Flemings Steak House. It was THE BEST steak I have ever had! I got a New York Strip and Jon got the filet special. My steak was cooked perfectly (well done, but not charred) and tasted amazing! I even ate the banana creme brulee for dessert and it was delicious (I'm normally not a fan of creme brulee, but it is Jon's favorite)! Our big trip for our anniversary was Vegas in July, but we also have Puerto Rico in January to look forward to. Jon is the most incredible husband and father. I feel truly blessed to have been married to him for 10 years. He strengthens me, supports me, lifts me up when I am down, and loves me unconditionally. I love him with all my heart and will forever!
Today was "THE BIG DAY"...the day I have been anticipating for years with worry and excitement! Emma is a big girl now, who rides the bus to Kindergarten! Last night I was very emotional. I cried a lot and got no sleep. I was looking at the clock every hour. My stomach was a mess of nerves, but I did make it through the morning with no tears! I set my alarm for 6:30 a.m. and woke Emma up at 6:40 a.m. She was so happy when I woke her up! She couldn't wait to go to school. We had her outfit all picked out with her special "Mila" flower for her hair. We walked to the bus stop around 7:40 and Emma got right on the bus and sat up front where the bus driver told her to sit. She didn't even look back. Derrick and I ran home to the car and drove to the school and got there just in time for Emma to get off the bus. She started walking the wrong way and there were no teachers to stop her, which I wasn't thrilled about. I hope she can find her way tomorrow. I pointed her in the right direction and she found her two friends from church. They all held hands and walked out to the playground together, it was so cute! Emma started playing and I started talking to other moms when I looked over and saw Emma talking to a playground aide, all worried. I walked over to her and she was upset because she couldn't find me. Then she started crying for her dad because he couldn't be there. I got her calmed down quickly so I that I wouldn't start crying too! Soon the bell rang and the teachers started lining up the kids. She waved and smiled for the camera and was off to class. Derrick and I enjoyed a delicious lunch at Paradise Bakery with friends while Emma was at school. I was nervous again as the time approached for the bus to come. And then I was even more worried when the bus was 25 minutes late! But she made it and as soon as she got off the bus she ran into my arms and was so happy. She had a great day doing puzzles, listening to stories and her favorite...3 recesses! :) She asked if she got to go back to school tomorrow. I am so relieved that she had such a great Kindergarten experience. Her teacher Miss Hann is who I really wanted her to have and I think Emma will respond well to her and have a great year!
A couple weeks ago Emma and I had a girls day out! We went to see Beauty and the Beast at the Hale Theater in Gilbert. Emma got all dressed up in her Belle dress and took along her Beast. My good friend Sabrea was in the show and I also knew the girl who played Belle. It was fun to see them. If you've never been to the Hale Theater, you should go. The stage is on the floor and the seats are stadium seating around the floor. There are only about 6 rows up, so every seat is a pretty good seat. Emma and I were at the top on an aisle. The actors use all of the aisles as entrances and exits. Well, we were in the perfect row because Belle stood right beside us when she came out in her yellow dress. Emma's eyes got really big and she said, "Mom, Belle is way too beautiful!" It was a great show and Emma and I had a good time. It made me realize how much fun it is to just spend time with her. So, Jon and I decided we are going to trade off having dates with the kids. Derrick and I will be spending everyday together, but I need time with my girl too!
A few weeks ago I asked Jon if he would mind Emma getting her ears pierced. My niece who is a little older than Emma got hers done and I had been thinking about it anyway. So, after getting dads approval we were off to the mall. Before we left we had along talk with Emma about what it would feel like to get her ears pierced. She was excited but also a little reluctant. She was also determined she would not cry. We got to the store and Emma took her seat on the chair after picking out some sparkly earrings. There was only one girl working who was trained in piercing so she had to have them done one at a time. While we were waiting Emma pointed out some big pink hoop earrings and asked if she could wear those! I told her not for a long time! The dots were on and Emma was set.
Then came the first earring and this...the saddest little face I have ever seen. She really tried hard not to cry, but she couldn't help it.
She calmed down almost immediately and was fine once the girl gave her a lollipop and she knew we were going to get ice cream!
Derrick was excited to get the reward for watching Emma get her ears pierced! :) She loves her earrings and shows them off to everyone. She can't wait until it is time to change them.
Scary Skeleton
Emma's tough bat face! :)
Emma's school party went well. Surprisingly, Derrick did really good just playing cars at the table I was at for 2 hours. I was in charge of face painting, which was really just using makeup sticks that were very hard to work with. Thank goodness kindergartners are easy to please!
Emma with some of her class
Emma with some of her friends
Derrick in his corner!
